Lovely shot, and congrats on the DD. Very characterful, very intimate. I think it's a strong enough image not to require the heavy filtering and blurring, but you know what opinions are like! Well done!
This is GOLD! So natural that can be taken as a simple photograph with a nude man in it, and not an overly produced artistic nude we are all so used to see here (and pretty much everywhere too). Also, a very good example of how there can be a nude without it being sexually oriented. Congratulations!